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Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood
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Women Who Love Too Much

Self-help
First published
1985
Print length
302 pagesPocket Books., 1985

Description

Robin Norwood examines why some women repeatedly become consumed by partners who are emotionally unavailable, addicted, or abusive, mistaking anxiety, rescue, and sacrifice for love. She connects these obsessive patterns to family backgrounds in which instability or unmet emotional needs made suffering feel familiar and control seem like care. Through case histories and a recovery framework influenced by addiction treatment, Norwood describes how attention can become fixed on changing another person while the woman’s own life contracts around the relationship. Her central prescription is not a better technique for winning affection but a shift toward self-recognition, boundaries, and help. Written in the language of its era, the book offers a direct self-help account of compulsive attachment and the family patterns that can sustain it.

Reading profile

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Collected’s assessment, not reader ratings. Complexity runs from 1 (least demanding) to 5 (most demanding).

Writing
How much attention the sentences and language require.
Ideas
How much interpretation or abstract reasoning the book asks of you.
Structure
How much you need to keep track of speakers, timelines and connections.
Background knowledge
Prior knowledge needed to follow the book, beyond what it explains.
Emotional intensity
Emotional pressure, from gentle (1) to intense (5). Separate from difficulty.

Writing style

Conversational · Descriptive · Direct

Pace

Moderate

Tone

Earnest · Hopeful · Intimate · Reflective

Structure

Argumentative

Focus

Ideas · Information · Relationships

Emotional intensity

4 / 5

Reading complexity

1–5 · higher means more demanding
Writing
2 / 5
Ideas
2 / 5
Structure
2 / 5
Background knowledge
1 / 5

Themes

AddictionFamilyLoveMental healthTransformationTrauma

Book details

For the print edition listed above.

Publisher
Pocket Books.
Language
English
ISBN
9780671645410
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